Wednesday, August 11, 2010


Recently, we have been playing with new ways of tying up, and I have found a way to secure his hands with handcuffs and his legs with rope that is pretty easy to do (I hate when it takes forever) but actually impossible for him to escape from and limits his movement a lot. I love smacking his balls and knowing he can't pull his legs together to stop me and all the other things I can do to him when he is in this vulnerable position.

Yesterday, I tied him up before going to buy some new sex toys. I left him with a femdom porno on on a laptop on his chest, headphones in and alone in the dark. I had to change the locking up position somewhat because I actually wanted him to be able to break free if there was a fire or something. So I tied the handcuffs to the bed with a one-time use breakable lock (I could tell if he would break it, though), and off I was. I bought some anal beads, some nipple decorations, a silly but fun board game and something called "the Prisoner." I came back, started a new porno about facesitting and ran to also buy some wine and chocolate for us :)

When I got back, I put the anal beads in him - they are so fun! They are relatively small though there are 5 of them, and they cute because they are pink and have a caterpillar face at the end (Fun Factory), but he seemed to really like them and was very close to coming as I put them in and out several times (is this how you are supposed to play with anal beads?).

I wanted to hop in the shower so I put another video on about three girls sleeping with a guy with strap ons on and left him while I showered with the door open. By the time I was back, he was very turned on - saying this was his favorite porno of the three when I slapped his balls and forced him to answer the question. I played some more with the beads which I had left in him and with his dick and brought him close to coming at least 10 times. We started watching a porno about cuckolding together but before long, I wanted him to get between my legs and pleasure me so I stopped the video and unlocked him. He wanted to touch himself, but I told him to focus just on my pussy. He made it feel very good, and I came very hard.

After a little cuddling (I always want to just be sweet together a little after I come), I was ready to tease him some more. I handcuffed him to the bed, this time with his bottom in the air/tummy down. I had given him a punishment of 50 strokes with the cane for touching when he wasn't allowed so I gave him those, about 50% of which I made very hard. I thought he could take even more, though, so we played around with the cane for about 20 more minutes - me giving him many hard strokes and many gentle ones as well, also sometimes just running the cane over his body. I would whip the cane in the air sometimes without hitting him just to scare him and show him how hard I could hit if I didn't go a little easy on him.

After this, I wanted to use our strap-on on him, and he agreed it was okay. We really need to get a bigger one, though, as this one is actually so small compared to others I had seen - it is maybe only 1/2 - 2/3 the size of his dick. But it was a good one to start playing around with, and is purple and very cute. I entered him and slept with him slowly at first, then very quickly. By the end, he was begging me to be allowed to come like that, but I told him of course no - he would have to stick to the plan. I got him close many times and each time when he got close enough that I needed to stop, he would have to say "Stop please."

After this, I wanted to sleep together - this is a big deal as I had managed to deny him sex for the last month. Usually I let him sleep with me during teasing but this time I wanted to be very strict. But I really wanted it again so I told him to lay on top of me and enter me. He did and tried very hard to pleasure me, but he had to go very slowly to keep from coming. At first, I just enjoyed the together feeling and feeling of closeness having him in me again. But eventually, I knew I was being too nice as he really could only go very very slowly. So - I told him a slave's place was not with this dick between his mistress's legs but with his face between them, and he reluctantly went down to kiss my pussy. He worked for a long time and made me come hard twice. He thanked me for letting him kiss me for so long but I wanted to reward him a little as well so I got on top of him and slipped his dick in me. We had very slow but very intimate sex, though no coming for him of course! When he was very close, he would often have to pull my body down close to him so that I could not move on his dick.

After enjoying this, we cuddled and he dozed into sleep. After watching a bit more online (porn site was still open from earlier, and I couldn't resist), I was turned on again so I actually woke him and made him pleasure me again - haha. Like a good little slave, he did as asked and spent some more time, a long time, between my legs - actually where he is right now so... that is enough for now :)

Teasing again

Hi again! Sorry I have not updated in so long and thanks to those of you who have started following - I was really happy to look at the page and see that so many people had been interested! Also, my boyfriend set up Google Analytics for me, and we saw that my blog had more than 20,000 site views since I started it in early 2009! Amazing to think of so many people reading about our adventures in bed! Anyway - thanks for your support!

So, I was not successful in sticking to a year with just 52 comings...ultimately, I just wasn't strict enough :( Also, my boyfriend got busy with work, and I just wasn't consequent enough to make it completely fun for us! Domination is a sexual game we have a lot of fun with and roles we take relatively seriously when we are in them, but it is not the only dynamic to our relationship, and we both enjoy having it be somewhat on-and-off.

But - I decided to post again now because I have been teasing my boyfriend for the last month without any comings! We have gotten so into teasing again and are planning on keeping it going for a while now so hopefully there will be some interesting updates and also maybe some areas I need your advice about!

Don't even know where to start catching up! So much has changed in the last year and a half - my boyfriend and I are both at new jobs, living in a new city (in Western Europe but I don't want to be more specific), etc., etc. But I guess you all might be most interested in my experience teasing him over the last month!

The last time he came was July 8. After he was kept busy with something else for about a week and was in a situation that made it difficult for him to come, he started to be turned on by the lack of coming and suggested that we try some teasing again - we had always played with it on and off over the last year and a half but not for a very extended time period (max: 2-3 weeks). I was very excited by the idea as well so we decided we would first get to come again on August 8 (his birthday!- a nice but actually random coincidence). In the month, we were actually both very busy and traveling a lot so we hardly saw each other, but when we did, I would bring him close to coming a lot or make him bring himself close to coming and then make him pleasure me for very long periods of time, making my pussy come hard on his face 2-3 times, sometimes while I slapped him around or talked dirty to me about how I wished his dick was not too teased to pleasure me or how I might have to find one that could! Also, we had some time for play on the web cam, and I did lots of strip teases for him and even made myself come with a vibrator once on the web cam. Finally, I would give him instructions some nights while he was away - making him get close a certain number of times before going to bed. He was very turned on during the month but relatively obedient ... except...

Unfortunately, during the month he was supposed to be being teased, he had a wet dream one night while I was sleeping beside him and came in his sleep -- bummer...This was about 1 week ago. Therefore, I decided to extend his teasing time to a little over 1,5 months so he will get to come for the first time next weekend (~Aug. 21). He was not too happy about this extension, but knew he had to accept it! (Do you all think it is fair to punish him for this? It wasn't really his fault, but he said he did enjoy it at least half as much as a normal orgasm)

Our plan is that after he comes next weekend, he will go 1-2 weeks between each coming depending on behavior/my wishes. As I typically travel for work Mon-Thurs., he will be free from his device these days but not allowed to come (he is honest about this). Then, starting Thurs. night, he will be locked up until Sunday. Then he will get to come out and play with me a little on Sunday and maybe get to come. We may play with him being locked up during the week sometimes as well, but this is a bit complicated to control because it is uncomfortable for him to stay in for the whole 4 days / he likes to go to the fitness studio during the week.

So -- does the plan sound like fun? Any ideas for us?

I will write my next blog about our last 3 days - finally time without work that we have been free to just hang out in our apartment and sex it up. We have had a great 3 days and lots of very hot experiences - it is very pleasurable for me to be teasing him again, and we also have some fun new toys!

He has been kissing my feet while I was writing so I might take a break and let him kiss somewhere else before I describe the last days :)

Please comment! I want to know if anyone is still reading!